YEMEN FICTION
A Day in the Life of Birdis Bint
Mohammed Abdallah
by Christje M. E. van
Schoot
[Yemen Update 28/29
(1991):6-10]
The village is still covered in darkness
when the old man makes his way between the houses to the small
village mosque, to switch on the cassette recorder so the
Allahu akbar can be heard from the loudspeaker. He has to
hurry because the stars are paling in the velvet blue sky. A cock
crows and a dog curls up once more in his hollow to protect
himself from the cold. The tops of the ragged mountain range
surrounding the Montane Plains become visible and deepen their
colour against the pale orange skyline of the breaking
dawn.
The Allahu akbar chant from the
small mosque drifts over the village. Birdis wakes up and gently
pushes Saleh, her youngest boy of a year and a half who has been
sleeping in her lap, to the side. He stirs and quickly she moves
him over toward Anisa, her eight year old daughter, who lies
curled up with small Arwa of four years. In her sleep Anisa puts
her arm protectively around Saleh and al-hamdulillah nobody
wakes up. Now she can do her fajr prayer without being
disturbed. Quickly she finishes her ablutions, arranges her
prayer-mat in the direction fo Mecca and starts to pray. She
really values these precious moments for herself.
After praying she glances over the three
children, who are still happily asleep and then she silently
leaves the room to go to the kitchen. In passing the room where
Mohammed, her husband, and Ahmed, his eleven year old son from his
first marriage, are sleeping, she stops a moment and listens at
the door; their regular breathing tells her that they are still
asleep. She smiles, it's good that Mohammed is still resting,
because he had to irrigate their alfalfa field last night and she
did not hear him coming back, so it must have been late
again.
As silently as possible she draws back
the long iron bolt of the door and leaves the house. The first
light casts long shadows over the yard. Within an hour the sun
will be up, and its rays will be reflected sharply by the
corrugated iron sheets, material of which her kitchen was
constructed after the earthquake some years ago. Shivering from
the cold morning air, she enters the kitchen, fetches the kettle,
fills it with water from the watertank and quickly lights the
small kerosine stove to make tea. Later on she will prepare the
firewood for the cooking of today's lunch and arrange it in the
tannur, so it can be lighted easily by her sister Fatima.
She herself will be away collecting firewood on the slopes of the
hill nearby.
Waiting for the tea to boil, she shakes
the gourd in which the mild is being fermented and takes out one
cup. She puts the cup of fermented milk on a shelf, to add it in
the evening to today's fresh milk. Then she starts to collect the
kitchen waste and food left-overs from yesterday to feed her cow
-- pieces of bread, some 'asid porridge, bean water. The
bones from yesterday's sheepmeat she throws to the mangy dog,
which has been waiting expectantly outside. Then she squats down
and mixes the ingredients together with some salt in an old
cracked cooking pot. Hakima, her neighbour and sister-in-law, is
going to gather firewood this morning and yesterday they agreed
that they would go out together. To go with Hakima is always good,
because she has a donkey which carries the bundles of shrubs. Her
own family's donkey is going out with the grazing sheep for
fetching the water. Of course a woman should not go out by herself
to the rangelands; people talk so easily.
Through the open door of her kitchen
Birdis sees wisps of smoke escaping through of the cracks in the
walls from Hakima's kitchen. So her friend has lighted her
tannur already, probably being nagged by Kheiserah, the
mother-in-law of both Hakima and herself. Birdis is very happy
that her husband made the decision to build a house of their own
after the earthquake, so she doesn't have to share the house with
bothersome Kheiserah. Poor Hakima, thinks Birdis.
She gets up from her squatting position
and stretches her back. It is still stiff and painful from
yesterday's cleaning of the sheepshed, collecting the sheep dung
and mixing it in the manure pit. How she hates that work and
almost automatically she brings her hands to her nose; Are they
still smelling of manure?
Then she sees her daughter Anisa
crossing the yard, heading towards the kitchen. Good, she is
awake, because it is high time to start milking the sheep and
feeding the cow. "Sabah al-khayr, ya ummi ", says Anisa,
while kissing the hand of her mother. "Sabah al-nur, ya
binti ", replies Birdis, "did you sleep well? Are Arwa and Saleh
still sleeping? Come, hurry and let's milk the sheep. Here, take
the pot with the food for the cow." Together they walk over to the
sheepshed and take a deep breath before entering, because the
strong, almost suffocating atmosphere is overpowering in the small
closed shed crammed with bleating sheep.
Birdis has a quick look at the lambs,
which have separated into one corner of the sheepshed. The she
grabs at the left hindleg of the nearest ewe, catches it between
her knees and bends over to milk. Although Anisa is starting to be
quite skilled at milking the sheep herself, she is mainly there to
hold the head of the ewes, in case they are difficult for Birdis
to control. After half an hour they have finished milking some
fifteen ewes and while Anisa takes the milk to the kitchen, Birdis
takes the pot with food for the cow and goes over to the cowshed.
While the cow is eating, she starts to milk. She talks softly to
the cow: "Be kind to my little daughter this morning. She will
feed you; I shall give you my attention in the afternoon again."
Birdis is humming the words now into a song, because she feels so
content. Milking the cow is something she likes much better than
the tedious work of milking sheep. Look how the milk is flowing in
thick and long jets. But then cows milk costs money, alfalfa is an
expensive fodder; sheepmilk is free, because the sheep graze on
the rangelands.
When she carries the cows' milk to the
kitchen, Saleh and Arwa are already awake and playing on the
doorstep. Mohammed, on leaving the house, steps carefully over
them, blinks sleepily into the bright sunlight and yawns. Chickens
are scuttling around, voices of children fill the fresh morning
air and mix with the general din of clanking cooking utensils,
bleating sheep, barking dogs and the ungainly sporadic braying of
donkeys. The village has finally shed off the cloak of night and
is coming to life.
Time for breadfast. Anisa brings the
thermos with steaming-hot tea and the tray with bread. She has
also prepared a dish of foul and there is some laban
on the side. The food is placed on the floor in the middle of the
room and the family gathers around it. In the corner of the room a
bundle of blankets comes to life and from it Ahmed emerges to join
the others. "Wash your hands first", says Mohammed, "are you still
a baby"? Birdis gives Arwa tea with a lot of milk in it and Saleh
crawls on to her lap, where she allows him to drink from her
breast.
Birdis tells her husband that she is
going out with Hakima this morning to collect firewood and that
Anisa with the help of Fatima, Birdis' sister, will look after the
children and the cow and will start the preparations for the main
midday meal. Ahmed will go out with the sheep, as he does every
morning. Afer lunch Mohammed will take over from him so Ahmed can
go to school in the afternoon. Occasionally Birdis has to take
over, when Mohammed has to be away during the
afternoons.
"Where is Fatima now" asks Mohammed,
"should she not be here already?" Birdis explains that she asked
Fatima to pass along her alfalfa field to cut a ration of fresh
fodder for the cow and the two fattening rams, because she would
not have the time to do it herself today.
When breadfast is over, and Anisa and
Arwa are cleaning up, Birdis goes to the kitchen to feed the
left-overs of bread from breakfast and some grain to her two rams,
which are kept for fattening purposes in the mahnazah, a
small pen in a corner of the kitchen. First she roughly cleans the
feeding trough and puts a bucket with fresh water beside it. When
she turns around she sees Arwa standing in the doorway of the
kitchen carrying little Saleh on her small hip. "Fatima has come,"
Arwa tells her "and she has cut a lot of alfalfa."
Birdis smiles, she is very fond of her
younger sister and grateful that Fatima is often around to help
her with the running of the house.
She will make a good housewife and her
future husband will be proud of her. She is only thirteen now, but
look how much she can do already independently. She sees that
Fatima is entering the house and will shortly come out with the
matresses and blankets. Anisa gives her a hand to put everything
in the sun to air. This is part of the daily cleaning
routine.
Birdis pours a glass of tea from the
thermos for Fatima and goes over to her to discuss the work when
she will be away to gather firewood. "First milk the sheep again
and let Anisa start feeding the cow, give straw to the rams in the
kitchen, light the fire in the tannur, prepare the dough
for the bread, sweep the house, and if there is time left, collect
the dung from the cowshed. Oh, don't worry about cleaning of the
sheepshed," Birdis adds quickly, when she sees the face of Fatima
cloud over, "I did it yesterday thouroughly; my back is still
reminding me of it. "Al-hamdulillah," sighs Fatima, "I
really hate that work, it smells so terrible." She gets up from
her squatting position to have a look at the small pit where the
dung is being collected and mixed with water and some straw. "Ah
your pit is almost full, if Anisa can do some trampling today, I
will help you tomorrow with making the cakes." "Excellent idea"
says Birdis.
At that moment she hears the shrill
voice of Hakima. "Ya Birdis, ya ukhti, yallah, let's hurry,
it's getting late." Birdis quickly takes the small hoe for cutting
branches and uprooting small shrubs and joins Hakima and her
donkey who are waiting at the entrance of her yard. It must be
around eight o'clock because, when passing the village school they
see the children just being marched inside by the Egyptian
teacher.
As soon as they have left the village
and ascertained to be alone, they both remove the part of the veil
covering half of their face. Arriving after half an hour on the
slopes of Hayt Bayaan, two other village women are already at
work. One of them has the face covered with a thick paste of
yellow turmeric powder to protect her skin from the sun. On seeing
her, Birdis brings her hands to her face and exclaims annoyed, "Oh
I have forgotten to protect my face." Hakima starts laughing and
teases her, "Why should you protect your skin after eight years of
marriage, your time of being a young flower is past, ya
ukhti. Or do you have a secret lover who wants you to be
beautiful?" she giggles. "Shame on you Hakima," calls Birdis
feigning anger. As she tries to grab her, Hakima quickly moves
away pushing the donkey between them.
They put on their gloves to protect
their hands from the thorns that most plants have and start to
work. Some shrubs give a nice smell to the bread, others have to
dry for almost a year outside before they can be used. Some plants
have a big root system with large roots and burn long in the
tannur. But uprooting them is difficult, especially during
the dry season when the soil is hard and dry. Although not knowing
them all by name, Birdis knows a great deal about the use of most
of these plants: as firewood for the tannur, to smoke the
milkgourd ,or for medicine.
Birdis has tied a cloth around her hips
in order to give support to her pregnant belly. During a moment of
rest she plucks off a small plant near her and smells its leaves.
A lovely smell, almost as sweet as the rayhan which she
grows at home. Rayhan was used at her wedding, now some
eight years ago, when she was fifteen. How young and afraid she
was then, but fortunately, Mohammed has been a good caring husband
to her and as proud as she is of their three children.
Hakima's voice nearby startles her in
her daydreaming and quickly she continues with the collection of
shrubs. After a while she has a nice, big bundle and Hakima helps
her to load it onto the donkey. The other women shout that they
have tea, so Birdis and Hakima walk down the slope to join them.
The donkey follows them. In their coloured dresses the four women
form a remarkable contrast against the desolate dry slope painted
with overtones of brown. While drinking the tea, Hakima tells
about the problems she has with Kheisera, her mother-in-law,
especially now that she wants her daughter to attend the village
school and Keisera is against this. Birdis says that she would
like to send Anisa to school, but who will look then after Arwa
and Saleh? "At least Ahmed is going to school in the afternoon,"
she concludes. Before the tea is finished several subjects have
been discussed; their health, the crops, the work at home. Then
another hour is spent collecting shrubs on the slope. After the
donkey is loaded, they walk back to the village. At home Birdis
will sort out the several types of shrubs and store them in a
semi-circle around her kitchen. Until Mohammed will build a wall
around the house, a thing he promised Birdis to do after selling
this year's harvest of potatoes, the thorny firewood tangle acts
as a kind of fence to keep animals out.
Birdis looks at the sun and sees that
she has to hurry in order to have lunch ready when Mohammed comes
home from the field. Fatima has shaped the bread dough into small
balls which can now be flattened out on the makhbaza and
then, one after the other, be slapped against the hot wall of the
tannur. The bowl with 'asid is already on the fire
and Fatima is patiently stirring the stiff mass. Birdis prepares
the hilba, using her hand with spread fingers to beat air
into the sauce. Flop, flop, flop goes her hand, a sound that
attracts little Saleh, who is hungry and realizes that food will
be ready any moment. Anisa gives him half a cup of maraq to
drink. Meanwhile Fatima and Anisa tell about their work in the
morning and of Kheisera who came over this morning to drink tea
with them. "And of course to watch what we were doing," adds
Fatima. She goes over to the milkgourd and shakes it vigourously
for some time to separate the butter from the milk.
During lunch Mohammed tells Birdis about
his work in the field this morning and about the land ownership
problem which has been brewing between the Mohsin and the Nasr
families. Birdis puts some food aside in small aluminium pot which
Mohammed will take with him to Ahmed, when relieving him of
herding the sheep. After a quick cup of tea he sets
off.
Fatima and Anisa clean up the dishes and
cooking pots, while Birdis has another cup of tea. "Ya
Fatima," shouts Birdis, "do not forget to smoke the mildgourd,
there are still some nice pieces of peach wood let." Then she
pushes herself up and goes to the cowshed to mild again. After
milking she handfeeds the cow while Saleh and Arwa are playing
around her. Hakima comes over and squats beside her. "It's good to
sit down for a moment" she says, "I have just been turning the
dungcakes, they are almost dry." Fatima joins them a few moments
later and for one hour they sit happily together, talking and
playing with the children and taking turns in handfeeding the
cow.
When Ahmed returns from the range, he
puts his food pot in the kitchen, pours himself a cup of tea and
joins the group for a few minutes. Anisa brings him his books and
a moment later he is off again to school. In the kitchen the two
rams can be heard bleating because it is time to feed them. Birdis
gathers some alfalfa which she puts in the trough for the rams.
Hakima hurries off to feed her rams and promising to come back
later when they will watch an Egyptian soap opera on the
television set in Birdis' house. After feeding the rams Birdis and
Fatima start to sort out and arrange the freshly gathered
firewood, so it can dry easily and will not be blown all over the
place.
"Ya Fatima, ya ummi,:
calls Anisa, "the television program has started. They stop the
work and go inside. A few moments later Hakima and her daughter
Salima join them. Contentedly they huddle together on the
mattresses of the mafraj and watch the program on the
black-and-white set connected to a car battery. Arwa and little
Saleh crawl around them. They are so engrossed in the story that
they do not hear Mohammed coming back with sheep. When he enters
the room he really startles them. "Ya salaam 'aleikum " he
booms, "wallahi, it is really comfortable in here, shall I
bring in the sheep too?" Birdis hurries outside to feed the sheep
sorghum stover, while Anisa pours Mohammed a cup of tea. He
watches the program for a while with little Saleh on his lap and
Arwa at his side. Hakima yawns, "It's time to go" she says. Fatima
arranges her headress and veil, so she can return through the
village to her house. Mohammed follows Hakima to the house of his
brother to chew qat. Kheisera sits in a far corner
surrounded by her grandchildren.
Birdis has finished feeding the sheep
and is shutting them inside the sheepshed for the night. The
shadows have grown very long now and the last sun rays of the day
put the village in a warm and deep golden light, despite that the
westerly winds blow very cold. In a few moments the sun will have
disappeared behind the mountains and the call from the village
mosque will be heard for maghreb prayers. Alone inside the
dark house, Birdis rolls out her prayer-mat in the direction of
Mecca and starts to pray. Today, like many other days, she has had
no time to do al-dhuhr, the second, and al -asr, the
third prayer. But Allah knows that she tries to be a good and
obedient housewife and a devoted Muslim. Oh, it has been a busy
day. Anyhow, things she did went well,
al-hamdulillah.
She hears that outside Saleh Mohsin is
starting his generator and a few moments later the two tubelights
flash the room into a bright light. For every bulb Mohammed pays
Saleh twenty riyals a month. Birdis leaves the house, calls for
Anisa and walks over to the sheepshed to milk the sheep. While
they are busy milking, Anisa tells Birdis that a lot of the
discussion among the qat chewing men that day dealt with
the land problems of the Mohsin family.
When finished with the sheep, Birdis
squats beside her cow to milk it. in the kitchen she puts the
cow's milk with the milk of the sheep into the milkgourd and the
cup with already fermented milk is added. She then goes back to
the house, taking a flat basket with bread and the pot with some
lunch left-overs which were heated up by Anisa. Saleh and Arwa
have returned from the house next door, together with Ahmed. Saleh
is sleeping already and, after having eaten a few pieces of bread,
Arwa curls up at Birdis' side. Mohammed will come home later and,
as always after chewing, will not be hungry.
They watch TV for a while and Ahmed
tells about his afternoon at school. Later on Anisa pulls Arwa
over to her and together they disappear under the blanket, their
protection against any interrruption later. Birdis puts Saleh
close beside her, and stretches herself out on the mattress.
Within minutes she is lulled asleep, surrounded by the familiar
noises of the thumping generator and the barking dogs.
Before entering the house, Mohammed
spits out the qat, rinses his mouth with water and clears
his throat loud and extensively. Birdis, being woken by this
sound, gets up and pours him his last cup of tea from the thermos.
He smiles at her and runs his hand over her plaited thick hair,
letting it rest on her neck. She smiles back at him and silently
he follows her to her mattress.
A waning pale moon sheds its silvery
light over the village houses, which large looming shapes cast
deep shadows over the ground. A million stars litter the dark blue
sky. The generators have ceased their monotonous thumping. The
village is at rest.
[Adapted from L. M. Maarse and C. M.
E. van Schoot (August, 1989) Rural Women in Livestock
Production and Rangeland Use (Dhamar: Range and Livestock
Improvement Project, Project Communication #34),
pp.10-17.]